Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand

KELLY COLLAGE_Female Empowerment Brand

The Female Lifestyle

Empowerment Brand

(It's not a good thing.)

This page includes my definition of The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand + all my essays and blog posts explaining why it’s bad for women, our businesses and our culture.

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Definition:

A "perfect woman" archetype must comply with and embody in order to be deserving of rights and resources

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A marketing strategy that leverages social status and white privilege to create authority over other women.

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Every Woman Is a Brand

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The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. An introduction.

Somewhere, on the edge of consciousness, there is what I call a mythical norm, which each one of us within our hearts knows “that is not me.” In America, this norm is usually defined as white, thin, male, young, heterosexual, Christian, and financially secure. -...

Featured posts

Ixtapa, Mexico + John Rawls + No Pedi. Unthinkable now, right?

#tbt Toes in the Sand but NO PEDI. Also, The Beauty Myth then and now.

cartoon of 1950s man in suit with his feet propped up on table saying "it's not my problem" about the so-called "feminist pendulum"

Feminism, Femininity and The Swinging Pendulum. A Question for You.

The Context for The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brrand

Not Enough Compensation in the World

July 10 2017

A quick note about critique vs trashing and accountability vs gossip

As I’m writing out my definition of – and problem with – The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand, here’s my intention: to name and investigate a social phenomena ...

July 10 2017

Let’s Get Off This Ride and Get Justice

A few days after Eric Garner's killers were not indicted in New York City, a very big Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand sent an email. She knew ...

July 10 2017

Me and The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. The Personal Backstory.

A long, long time ago -- like, 4-8 years ago; the jurassic era, online -- I was trying to be fabulous online. I was writing clever blog ...

May 8 2017

Reinventing the Online Summit

You know those problematic Online Summits? Here's a non-exploitative, successful, feminist model for launching one (while staying in alignment with your social justice principles!) I want ...

March 28 2017

How To Sell Without Selling Out Your Principles

There once was a radical commercial full of righteous body diversity that seemed to be a fist in the air for intersectional feminism, except that ...

January 11 2017

The Language of Activism, Feminism and Revolution is Not For Sale

I wrote a post a while back about some egregious marketing "don'ts" that I think are important for conscious, change-making entrepreneurs to reject and do ...
The Patriarchal Promise

December 8 2016

The Patriarchal Promise, Part 1

The Patriarchal Promise means being in the possession of an abundant livelihood, influence, respect, a beautiful subservient woman and her sexuality (or several), and a ...

November 28 2016

Getting Naked, Getting Paid, and Empowerment AKA It’s NOT Only About Your Intentions

A while ago Danielle LaPorte posted an update on Facebook about how Kim Kardashian's naked eff-you selfie with a similarly naked professional model was not, in ...
The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand

October 29 2016

The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand: A Definition

I'm writing a book about The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand and every Sunday I send a newsletter working through it (this essay started out as ...
the perfect woman, violence against women

October 13 2016

“The Perfect Woman” is a form of Violence Against Women

pssst...this essay is related to the book I'm writing about The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand. If you'd like to learn more about the phenomenon and ...

Every week, I send you a

Sunday Love Letter

I write them so that…

  1. You remember your life-changing, culture-making power
  2. You have the inspiration + tools you need to bring something new to the world
Are you in?

Marketing, social media and deliberate self-promotion aren’t a distraction.⁠
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They’re activities that add up to a winning and significant body of work.⁠
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They're not a distraction from ideation. They ARE your ideas.⁠
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Here are 3 counterintuitive but KEY activities for Thought Leaders to commit to for putting their ideas out into the world, developing their body of work and moving forward in their business:⁠
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1. SOCIAL MEDIA.⁠
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It's not *just* about getting attention. Social media can be a lab for cultivating your ideas, so put snippets of ideas out on social, every day.⁠
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2. NETWORKING.⁠
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Having conversations with interesting people -- even preaching to boring ones -- provides creative stimulus and opportunities to forge creative connections and embroider your ideas.⁠
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3. WILD IDLING.⁠
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True thought leadership & meaningful bodies of work require unstructured leisure time and “wild idling.” (h/t @LianneRaymond)⁠
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ONE MORE TIME, WITH FEELING:⁠
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Self-promotion is not a distraction from your body of work.⁠
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It’s part of how you create meaningful work that matters. It's an idea-growing practice.⁠
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I'm Kelly Diels, an expert on Culture Making, Thought Leadership and IP. I teach culture-making entrepreneurs & creators how to develop a substantial body of work that changes EVERYTHING – your life, your industry, our world.⁠
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#BodyOfWork #MakingAnImpact #ThoughtLeader #ContentStrategy #LevelUpYourBusiness #CreativeEntrepreneur #CreativeEntrepreneurship #IntentionalBusiness  #BrandingIdentity #SocialMediaForBusiness #SocialEntrepreneur #IntellectualProperty
Are you wrestling with Imposter Complex? This might help. #impostersyndrome #impostercomplex #thoughtleadership #creativeentrepreneur #intellectualproperty #bodyofwork #WeAreTheCultureMakers #deepwork #slowproductivity #visibility #edwardsaid #orientalism #culturalexile #yourdifferenceisyourstrength www.kellydiels.com
Dear Multi-Passionate Maker,⁠⠀⁠
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Maybe you don't have Shiny Object Syndrome.⁠⠀⁠
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Maybe you've been studying & practicing all of these modalities because you're developing a rich body of work, across time.⁠⠀⁠
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(No maybe about it.)⁠⠀⁠
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Multi-passionate professionals often get told that they're "scattered" & need to focus.⁠⠀⁠
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They then internalize negative messages insisting that  their orientation towards lifelong learning, curiosity & creativity is a barrier to success.⁠⠀⁠
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IT'S NOT.⁠⠀⁠
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It's how we build the deep work & creative solutions needed for these urgent times.⁠⠀⁠
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Often, when I work with multi-passionate professionals, it's wildly obvious to me that they're collecting tools, synthesizing across traditions -- and making a whole new thing! -- in order to solve complex social problems.⁠⠀⁠
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They've been gathering all.the.tools.⁠⠀⁠
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You know what all those tools add up to? ⁠⠀⁠
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A practice. A way of doing things. A framework. Your unique process.⁠⠀⁠
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***You have a methodology.*** ⁠⠀⁠
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So let's build language for it and NAME IT, specifically.⁠⠀⁠
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Naming your method makes it tangible AND SALEABLE.⁠⠀⁠
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Now it now gets a lot easier to explain it to other people...⁠⠀⁠
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...and becomes more obvious why they might want to work with you :)⁠⠀⁠
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Once you name it, you substantiate it. ⁠⠀⁠
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****Including to yourself.****⁠⠀⁠
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Now YOU can see how everything you've trained in has led up to this, has prepared you for this work.⁠⠀⁠
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⁠Because, dear Multi-passionate Maker, you're NOT spinning your wheels or getting distracted by shiny things.⁠⠀⁠
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You're growing the solutions & institutions of the future.⁠⠀⁠
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Let's make sure you've got the language to describe them. ⁠⠀⁠
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love + justice,⁠⠀⁠⠀⁠
Kelly⁠⠀⁠
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#SurfaceYourMethodology #IntellectualProperty #DeepWork #BodyOfWork #SlowProductivity #ThoughtLeadership #ThoughtLeader #MeaningfulWork #WeAreTheCultureMakers⁠
I repeat:⁠
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Self-promotion is NOT a distraction from your Body of Work - it’s a lab for your thought leadership!⁠
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People often think social media is frivolous. A time-suck.⁠
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Or that marketing, networking & self-promotion take your time away from the *real* work.⁠
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But in my latest blog post, I’m sharing with you 3 surprising key activities that will add up to a SIGNIFICANT and MEANINGFUL Body of Work.⁠
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Check it out here: https://kellydiels.com/meaningful-bodies-of-work-require-base-hits⁠
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My Blog link can also be found in my bio @kelly.diels ⁠
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I'm Kelly Diels, an expert on Culture Making, Thought Leadership and IP. I teach culture-making entrepreneurs & creators how to develop a substantial body of work that changes EVERYTHING – your life, your industry, our world.⠀⁠
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#BodyOfWork #MakingAnImpact #ThoughtLeader #ContentStrategy #LevelUpYourBusiness #CreativeEntrepreneur #CreativeEntrepreneurship #IntentionalBusiness  #BrandingIdentity #SocialMediaForBusiness #SocialEntrepreneur #IntellectualProperty⁠