saying yes means saying no

saying yes means saying no

Decide, in Latin, means “to cut”.* This is why we procrastinate. (Procrastination is a function of existential crisis, says Timothy… Read More »

discovering a delicious new fear. yum.

discovering a delicious new fear. yum.

For the last several years – scratch that, forever – my Big Fear about people, love, friendship, relationships has been… Read More »

the downside of community

the downside of community

When my youngest daughter was eight months old, I moved back to the small(ish) suburban community I grew up in…. Read More »

Live it, Protect it, French-kiss it

Live it, Protect it, French-kiss it

My Friends, Recently something scary happened – I won’t bore you with details (is there anything more awful than hearing… Read More »

just tryin’ to stay a little high ‘til we die

just tryin’ to stay a little high ‘til we die

He’s an executive. His house is paid for, as are the university educations of his kids. His wife won’t fuck… Read More »

everybody hurts

everybody hurts

A long, long time ago, I had a new paramour. In addition to a new love, I also had a new… Read More »