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		<title>By: How to get husband back after separation</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to get husband back after separation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 16:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: messi wallpapers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 14:33:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Hello Wife &#187; The List</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hello Wife &#187; The List</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 16:25:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] July 4th, Kelly Diels of Cleavage started the post that I haven’t been able to write an intro to: “I wish, when I married, that I [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Perla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Perla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liked this blog - Friendships are not disposable for me, I will keep in touch even with my kindergartner friends - however, I don&#039;t hang out with every single friend I have, because we&#039;re all in different stages of our lives and looking for enjoy different things at certain points of our lives - I will keep in touch, be there for them when they need me, but not necesarily see them every day I go out or hang out all the time...as far as love - Love is a choice, marriage is a choice...we stay in it because we choose to accept the person we married the way they are, and we choose to stay in love and not give up at the first problem we have - marriage for me is not disposable either...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked this blog &#8211; Friendships are not disposable for me, I will keep in touch even with my kindergartner friends &#8211; however, I don&#8217;t hang out with every single friend I have, because we&#8217;re all in different stages of our lives and looking for enjoy different things at certain points of our lives &#8211; I will keep in touch, be there for them when they need me, but not necesarily see them every day I go out or hang out all the time&#8230;as far as love &#8211; Love is a choice, marriage is a choice&#8230;we stay in it because we choose to accept the person we married the way they are, and we choose to stay in love and not give up at the first problem we have &#8211; marriage for me is not disposable either&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Maria de los Angeles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria de los Angeles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 02:13:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A friend of mine recommended that I read you today after I posted my latest blog post about the &quot;girl code&quot; and heartbreaks that happen among girlfriends. My friend was spot on! I hadn&#039;t heard of you and am so glad I found this blog.  I too am perplexed by this disposable friendship business though boundaries are extremely important.  Sharing my heart with a friend causes almost as much, if not more trepidation than sharing it with a lover.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend of mine recommended that I read you today after I posted my latest blog post about the &#8220;girl code&#8221; and heartbreaks that happen among girlfriends. My friend was spot on! I hadn&#8217;t heard of you and am so glad I found this blog.  I too am perplexed by this disposable friendship business though boundaries are extremely important.  Sharing my heart with a friend causes almost as much, if not more trepidation than sharing it with a lover.</p>
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		<title>By: Things that matter &#171; The Highwire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Things that matter &#171; The Highwire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 12:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Kelly Diels got me thinking this morning about what makes these people so special? What have they done to lay claim to my spare kidney? Well, they are family. They are &#8216;my people&#8217;. Not all of them share my DNA. Not all of them (very few in fact) live close enough for me to have an easy coffee with. Most of them I don&#8217;t see as often as I&#8217;d like. But none of that matters. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Kelly Diels got me thinking this morning about what makes these people so special? What have they done to lay claim to my spare kidney? Well, they are family. They are &#8216;my people&#8217;. Not all of them share my DNA. Not all of them (very few in fact) live close enough for me to have an easy coffee with. Most of them I don&#8217;t see as often as I&#8217;d like. But none of that matters. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just discoverd your writing and after reading this article am sitting at my desk, at work, in tears.
Beautiful.
Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just discoverd your writing and after reading this article am sitting at my desk, at work, in tears.<br />
Beautiful.<br />
Thank you</p>
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		<title>By: My Favorite Posts- Week Ending July 9 &#124; Gurls Asylum</title>
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		<dc:creator>My Favorite Posts- Week Ending July 9 &#124; Gurls Asylum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 18:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Diels hit a chord when she talked about the difference between healthy boundaries and disposable friendships and how easy it is to slip into the latter while calling it the first. She came up with a totally [...]</description>
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		<title>By: PicsieChick</title>
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		<dc:creator>PicsieChick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 01:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-32177&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Alana @Elle&lt;/a&gt;, Sending you both bright loving butterflies.  May your gorgeous big hearts and open love have wings!

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-32177" rel="nofollow">@Alana @Elle</a>, Sending you both bright loving butterflies.  May your gorgeous big hearts and open love have wings!</p>
<p>Hugs and butterflies,<br />
~T~</p>
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		<title>By: Alana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 23:41:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love this whole conversation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this whole conversation.</p>
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