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		<title>By: Joan</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/06/12/regret-is-a-luxury-and-a-vice/#comment-31882</link>
		<dc:creator>Joan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 12:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I watched the movie &quot;Crazy Heart&quot; over the weekend. Jeff Bridges&#039; character sings a song that goes, &quot;Funny how fallin&#039; feels like flyin&#039;...for a little while.&quot; It kept running through my head, and eventually my brain turned it into &quot;Funny how flyin&#039; feels like fallin&#039;...for a little while.&quot;

We all mix up flyin and fallin, back and forth, and both feel the same...for a little while. So either way, it&#039;s a huge risk. Will I fall, or fly? Fly or fall? Sometimes, it&#039;s best to just jump and see if the wings appear.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I watched the movie &#8220;Crazy Heart&#8221; over the weekend. Jeff Bridges&#8217; character sings a song that goes, &#8220;Funny how fallin&#8217; feels like flyin&#8217;&#8230;for a little while.&#8221; It kept running through my head, and eventually my brain turned it into &#8220;Funny how flyin&#8217; feels like fallin&#8217;&#8230;for a little while.&#8221;</p>
<p>We all mix up flyin and fallin, back and forth, and both feel the same&#8230;for a little while. So either way, it&#8217;s a huge risk. Will I fall, or fly? Fly or fall? Sometimes, it&#8217;s best to just jump and see if the wings appear.</p>
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		<title>By: Siddhartha</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/06/12/regret-is-a-luxury-and-a-vice/#comment-31841</link>
		<dc:creator>Siddhartha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 04:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s interesting we’re so disappointed when a relationship doesn’t work out but okay when other things don’t meet our expectations.

If we buy a product or attend an event and realize it’s not what we wanted, that it’s not meeting our needs, we just shrug and say “Well, that was a waste of money”.  But we don’t beat ourselves up over it, we don’t lament it.

In relationships however, the product is malleable and the price is negotiable.  So we’re always asking, “Did I pay too much?  Not enough?  What if I had offered more, would I have gotten a better product?”

And we think, “If this product would only be what I want it to be I’d be happy.  Why can’t I print DVD labels with a George Foreman Grill?”  We know what George Foreman Grills are for and we don’t expect them to do things they can’t.

But with people we often expect them to do what they’re incapable of and are disappointed when they can’t and we begin to think if we’d paid more maybe we could have gotten the model that did print DVD labels.

Why don’t people come with specs.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s interesting we’re so disappointed when a relationship doesn’t work out but okay when other things don’t meet our expectations.</p>
<p>If we buy a product or attend an event and realize it’s not what we wanted, that it’s not meeting our needs, we just shrug and say “Well, that was a waste of money”.  But we don’t beat ourselves up over it, we don’t lament it.</p>
<p>In relationships however, the product is malleable and the price is negotiable.  So we’re always asking, “Did I pay too much?  Not enough?  What if I had offered more, would I have gotten a better product?”</p>
<p>And we think, “If this product would only be what I want it to be I’d be happy.  Why can’t I print DVD labels with a George Foreman Grill?”  We know what George Foreman Grills are for and we don’t expect them to do things they can’t.</p>
<p>But with people we often expect them to do what they’re incapable of and are disappointed when they can’t and we begin to think if we’d paid more maybe we could have gotten the model that did print DVD labels.</p>
<p>Why don’t people come with specs.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Teegarden</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/06/12/regret-is-a-luxury-and-a-vice/#comment-31840</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Teegarden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 01:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes I&#039;m onto reading more of his work. He&#039;s seriously open my mind to much more possibility of truly connecting and engaging on a much deeper level not only with myself but my many relationships. 

Since everyone has feminine and masculine energy I&#039;m much more conscious of it and what needs they may have more of. 

Crazy good stuff. 

I&#039;ll be picking up Intimate Communion as well. Thank you ;-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I&#8217;m onto reading more of his work. He&#8217;s seriously open my mind to much more possibility of truly connecting and engaging on a much deeper level not only with myself but my many relationships. </p>
<p>Since everyone has feminine and masculine energy I&#8217;m much more conscious of it and what needs they may have more of. </p>
<p>Crazy good stuff. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be picking up Intimate Communion as well. Thank you <img src='http://www.kellydiels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Melzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 00:13:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As always, Kelly, you&#039;ve dissected emotions few dare to explore. Knowing we all fall short in some aspect is one thing, but to acknowledge, learn and actively seek to become better opens the door to produce the fruits of live (and love) we all desire. I had to hold back the tears when I read &quot;offer your best and truest love&quot;. I thought I had all along, but if I&#039;m honest with myself I&#039;ve been selfish and stingy. I appreciate you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As always, Kelly, you&#8217;ve dissected emotions few dare to explore. Knowing we all fall short in some aspect is one thing, but to acknowledge, learn and actively seek to become better opens the door to produce the fruits of live (and love) we all desire. I had to hold back the tears when I read &#8220;offer your best and truest love&#8221;. I thought I had all along, but if I&#8217;m honest with myself I&#8217;ve been selfish and stingy. I appreciate you!</p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 22:50:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This speaks to me so deeply, Kelly ... first of all, I am sorry for your pain.  But I am so awed by your ability to see clearly through it and to take the lesson from life&#039;s murk.  I learn so much from watching you, from knowing you.  Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This speaks to me so deeply, Kelly &#8230; first of all, I am sorry for your pain.  But I am so awed by your ability to see clearly through it and to take the lesson from life&#8217;s murk.  I learn so much from watching you, from knowing you.  Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Morag</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/06/12/regret-is-a-luxury-and-a-vice/#comment-31833</link>
		<dc:creator>Morag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 22:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-31803&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Kelly Diels&lt;/a&gt;, what you&#039;ll teach them is what you&#039;re learning: that love is great and worth the risk. When it doesn&#039;t work you dust yourself off and go love again, wholeheartedly. You live wholeheartedly. That&#039;s a real relationship. Noshame.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-31803" rel="nofollow">@Kelly Diels</a>, what you&#8217;ll teach them is what you&#8217;re learning: that love is great and worth the risk. When it doesn&#8217;t work you dust yourself off and go love again, wholeheartedly. You live wholeheartedly. That&#8217;s a real relationship. Noshame.</p>
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		<title>By: Jackie Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jackie Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 19:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-31825&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Tony Teegarden&lt;/a&gt;, David Deida&#039;s book Initmate Communion was a life changer for me too.  It mined the depth that Eat, Pray, Love had started.  I&#039;m so grateful and you&#039;ve reminded me to read more of his work thank you.  I&#039;ll also buy some spares for when a man comes into my life!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-31825" rel="nofollow">@Tony Teegarden</a>, David Deida&#8217;s book Initmate Communion was a life changer for me too.  It mined the depth that Eat, Pray, Love had started.  I&#8217;m so grateful and you&#8217;ve reminded me to read more of his work thank you.  I&#8217;ll also buy some spares for when a man comes into my life!!</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Doolin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Doolin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 19:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-31830&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Shannon W.&lt;/a&gt;, I&#039;ve been on a &quot;no-woman&quot; diet for about a year now.  Sort of.  Part of the fun of being on a diet is the guilty pleasure of cheating once in a while.  Accidently of course.  Feeling bad never felt so good.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-31830" rel="nofollow">@Shannon W.</a>, I&#8217;ve been on a &#8220;no-woman&#8221; diet for about a year now.  Sort of.  Part of the fun of being on a diet is the guilty pleasure of cheating once in a while.  Accidently of course.  Feeling bad never felt so good.</p>
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		<title>By: Shannon W.</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/06/12/regret-is-a-luxury-and-a-vice/#comment-31830</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 19:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you, Kelly, for all of that. And your courage and honesty. And for saying some of the things I only think. 

And, I&#039;m going to track back your temporarily chaste thread as well; I&#039;ve just started a 6-month man cleanse ... scary, exhilirating, so far littered with some cheating as in any diet. 

Thank you for leading the way.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Kelly, for all of that. And your courage and honesty. And for saying some of the things I only think. </p>
<p>And, I&#8217;m going to track back your temporarily chaste thread as well; I&#8217;ve just started a 6-month man cleanse &#8230; scary, exhilirating, so far littered with some cheating as in any diet. </p>
<p>Thank you for leading the way.</p>
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		<title>By: You can be your you-iest</title>
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		<dc:creator>You can be your you-iest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 18:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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