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	<title>Comments on: on coffee, masculinity, and the joys of being friends with boys</title>
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		<title>By: stylo</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-32313</link>
		<dc:creator>stylo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 17:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m the guy but i really don&#039;t like that guy..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m the guy but i really don&#8217;t like that guy..</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-31041</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 20:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly He isn&#039;t joking he wants to have sex with you. He is just a nice guy. A real nice guy but  you wouldn&#039;t notice that. If you want a nice guy and real relationship have sex with Z. Z I&#039;m pulling for you!

FYI I only read the nice guy post and this post so far, I could be way off but I&#039;m a guy. 

BTW in my opinion guys can be friends only after they are married with children. Okay maybe I&#039;m full of shit I still have girl friends from high scholl but, I was only friends with them oringinally because I wanted to get in their pants or i wanted to get in their friends pants.  

HMmm I always thought of myself as a nice guy maybe I&#039;m not. You know what us men are pretty screwed up which is why you can&#039;t figure us out. We&#039;re as crazy as you women are. I&#039;m glad I&#039;m married and don&#039;t have worry about this crap anymore.  GOOD LUCK. 

OH Yeah I found you because you won on Davd Risley&#039;s blog. How could I not look at a blog that is titled Cleavage. After all I&#039;m a man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly He isn&#8217;t joking he wants to have sex with you. He is just a nice guy. A real nice guy but  you wouldn&#8217;t notice that. If you want a nice guy and real relationship have sex with Z. Z I&#8217;m pulling for you!</p>
<p>FYI I only read the nice guy post and this post so far, I could be way off but I&#8217;m a guy. </p>
<p>BTW in my opinion guys can be friends only after they are married with children. Okay maybe I&#8217;m full of shit I still have girl friends from high scholl but, I was only friends with them oringinally because I wanted to get in their pants or i wanted to get in their friends pants.  </p>
<p>HMmm I always thought of myself as a nice guy maybe I&#8217;m not. You know what us men are pretty screwed up which is why you can&#8217;t figure us out. We&#8217;re as crazy as you women are. I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m married and don&#8217;t have worry about this crap anymore.  GOOD LUCK. </p>
<p>OH Yeah I found you because you won on Davd Risley&#8217;s blog. How could I not look at a blog that is titled Cleavage. After all I&#8217;m a man.</p>
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		<title>By: Taylor</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-27329</link>
		<dc:creator>Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 23:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this! I have two really close guy friends and they mean the world to me. We joke about having sex too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this! I have two really close guy friends and they mean the world to me. We joke about having sex too.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Monroe</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-27317</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Monroe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:37:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, great convo. Can&#039;t be mad at Z for trying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, great convo. Can&#8217;t be mad at Z for trying.</p>
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		<title>By: D</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-26610</link>
		<dc:creator>D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 04:08:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice use of title attributes.  I approve.

Woody Allen quote comes to mind there towards the end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice use of title attributes.  I approve.</p>
<p>Woody Allen quote comes to mind there towards the end.</p>
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		<title>By: Eleanor Edwards</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-26492</link>
		<dc:creator>Eleanor Edwards</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 20:49:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-26473&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Kelly Diels&lt;/a&gt;, lol. Good answer ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-26473" rel="nofollow">@Kelly Diels</a>, lol. Good answer <img src='http://www.kellydiels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-26473</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 20:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-26454&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Eleanor Edwards&lt;/a&gt;, at least in my own mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-26454" rel="nofollow">@Eleanor Edwards</a>, at least in my own mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Eleanor Edwards</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eleanor Edwards</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 18:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-26396&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Kelly Diels&lt;/a&gt;, 
I was reading that and just laughing along and giggling in recognition then I come over here to see you talk about the friendship/flirty male energy and it&#039;s like I couldn&#039;t agree more. This could have been a transcript from a msn conversation with one of my special friends. The difference being, I would be too shy to publish. Kelly, you are a legend :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-26396" rel="nofollow">@Kelly Diels</a>,<br />
I was reading that and just laughing along and giggling in recognition then I come over here to see you talk about the friendship/flirty male energy and it&#8217;s like I couldn&#8217;t agree more. This could have been a transcript from a msn conversation with one of my special friends. The difference being, I would be too shy to publish. Kelly, you are a legend <img src='http://www.kellydiels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-26396</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 14:56:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-26325&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Nicki&lt;/a&gt;, I *was* going to write an emotional, loving piece about the three men who are totally in my corner, and how I am treasuring their friendship, and how the friendship + flirty male energy is sooooooooooo important to me right now...but I think this conversation says it all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-26325" rel="nofollow">@Nicki</a>, I *was* going to write an emotional, loving piece about the three men who are totally in my corner, and how I am treasuring their friendship, and how the friendship + flirty male energy is sooooooooooo important to me right now&#8230;but I think this conversation says it all.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/04/05/coffee-masculinity-joys-being-friends-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-26395</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 14:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-26268&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Tracy Todd&lt;/a&gt;, I think the different is the key - and the attraction - for me, in all ways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-26268" rel="nofollow">@Tracy Todd</a>, I think the different is the key &#8211; and the attraction &#8211; for me, in all ways.</p>
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