Comments on: turns out I do NOT hate the ENTIRE Seduction Community, After All

By: Kelly Diels

Kelly Diels — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 03:00:56 +0000

@Dave Doolin, that would require leaving the house.

By: Dave Doolin

Dave Doolin — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 02:43:45 +0000

Yes, go ask some guy out! It’s easy!

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Sun, 21 Mar 2010 07:47:27 +0000

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By: Prahlad

Prahlad — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 03:49:10 +0000

@Kelly Diels “I have to ask someone out in the name of women’s liberation?”

I definitely didn’t say that.
What I did mean was: both men and women can ask and be asked out. Let’s drop traditional roles.
And, let’s be honest: not asking is just a matter of fear (a demon I faced a lot myself).

Anyway, I would respond “Yes” to that approach: at least, it’s original!

By: Kelly Diels

Kelly Diels — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 13:37:48 +0000

@Prahlad, oh wow. I have to ask someone out in the name of women's liberation? Is that a good pick up line? I will let you know how some random man responds to this: I ask you out in the name of gender equality! Let's make out at the movies!)

By: Kelly Diels

Kelly Diels — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 13:36:02 +0000

@sas, I have enough shy for all of us. I just fake being an extrovert really, really well.

By: Prahlad

Prahlad — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 08:40:54 +0000

Yo, ma’am!
I’m glad you eased up on the PUA thing…
Because, in the end, men and women are in that “game” for the same reason: “WIIFM?”
(and the “It” might be different, of course)

Did you never asked a man out? Lucky you!
I asked hundreds, and was asked only by an handful. Oh my.

Have you been turned down for sex 3 times? Poor thing.
I have been rejected hundreds (and I do mean 100s!).
Well, I survived (scars included).

Do you think this isn’t fair? You bet it ISN’T!
Life ISN’T fair, both for men and women.
But isn’t fair in different ways, usually.
And we both try our best to survive and thrive.

PS: Try to ask someone out. It’s a good exercise for you strength; and you won’t die, I promise.
What about that “askus requestus muscle”, anyway?

Besides, weren’t you for gender’s equality of rights?
Hmmm… ;-P

By: sas

sas — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 07:36:45 +0000

face that demon girl! asking someone out and being rejected is the best thing. the fear goes. i learnt that i am a pineapple: some people LOVE pineapple, others not so much. it’s ok, there is no accounting for taste.

but some guy will want to eat pineapple every day for the rest of his life. imagine if he happened to be a bit shy?

By: Kelly Diels

Kelly Diels — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 19:03:14 +0000

@Gurl, you're right - common ground is more common than we sometimes think.

By: Kelly Diels

Kelly Diels — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 19:02:24 +0000

@Deacon, That sounded suspiciously like a backhanded compliment. PUT DOWN THE BOOK already. mwah.