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I Heart Malcolm Gladwell

I’m swooning. My #1 imaginary boyfriend, Malcolm Gladwell, is in town next week. He’s speaking about the flip side of Social Media at the F5 Expo. This is timely. He … Continue Reading →


A Good Fable Never Fails to Terrorize

My child will soon be six years old. Anyone who has – or has been – a five year old knows that turning six is a A Very Big Deal. … Continue Reading →


Talk is Not Intimacy. The Tyranny of Words.

I am not a morning person. To me, the wee hours are like The Bad Ex: unpleasant, defensive, and best avoided. And yet by sheer force of will and habit … Continue Reading →


The Yin and Yang of Intimacy

Some of us enter intimate bonds with an acute awareness of our need to connect, to be close, not to be alone, not to be abandoned. Others approach relationships with … Continue Reading →


How To Get A Book Deal – The Accidentally Epic Series

Here’s a list of all the pieces in the accidentally epic how-to-get-a-book deal series based on advice from published authors to a wannabe (that’s me!): The how-to-get-a-book-deal piece, in full: … Continue Reading →


How To Get A Book Deal: 13 Questions with Zen Habit’s Leo Babauta

1. Are you a bookie? (as in: “lover of books”, not trading in questionable money “loaning” practices. I’m not implying anything.) Leo Babauta: Unquestionably. I’ve been in love with books … Continue Reading →


How to Get a Book Deal. An Evolutionary, Biblical Approach. (This Is Why I am a Writer And Not a Scientist.)

You know the old saw, “if you want to learn something, teach it”? I’ve got deep, dark nefarious plans to write a book. But I don’t know a thing about … Continue Reading →


Criticism: It Doesn’t Have To Be a Little Shop of Horrors

Is it true? I’m both a brazen, noisy man-eater and a fragile flower. Sometimes. If I ask for feedback, advice or criticism, I want no bullshit straight-shooting from a fierce and tender … Continue Reading →


On Will Power, a Jaunt Through My Archive (I have an archive!), And Cringe-Inducing Just-Starting-Out Posts

I’ve been blogging for almost a year and the following piece was my second post. It was one of those pieces where you write about the thing you’re trying to … Continue Reading →


my sexy friend made me celibate. sort of.

The Latin Quarter. Friday night. My friend Joanie is holding court. She knows people. She’s having an mmm-hmmm hot conversation with the guy behind the bar. He looks like a … Continue Reading →


It is okay NOT to teach people how to treat you. Unless they were raised by wolves. Then Cold Play or a quick exit is in order. Your call.

Do NOT teach people how to treat you. Dr. Phil is lying. You don’t teach people how to treat you, because most of us were not raised by wolves and therefore we do know how to … Continue Reading →


hearsay brilliance: “Only go when the light is green”

A bit of hearsay brilliance from my friend’s therapist: You’re looking for red flags to slow your roll. Stop looking for red flags. Instead, proceed only when you see green … Continue Reading →


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