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	<description>Cleavage is about the three things everyone wants more of: sex, money and meaning. Kelly Diels is writing through the lines that shape us.</description>
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		<title>By: coffee, masculinity, and the joys of being friends with boys &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-26420</link>
		<dc:creator>coffee, masculinity, and the joys of being friends with boys &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 16:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] absolutely and unwaveringly. Offering friendship. Asking nothing of me except to just be me. And showing up, consistently. It is almost better than a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Moon in Libra ~ Love is a Compass by Guest Blogger Kelly Diels &#187; AstroDispatch.com &#187; Astrology Around The Web</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-6331</link>
		<dc:creator>Moon in Libra ~ Love is a Compass by Guest Blogger Kelly Diels &#187; AstroDispatch.com &#187; Astrology Around The Web</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] good for me and mine. It gets at The Answer. It gets me to the people and things to whom I ought to give my attention, money and love. Love is a ruthless [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] good for me and mine. It gets at The Answer. It gets me to the people and things to whom I ought to give my attention, money and love. Love is a ruthless [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Moon in Libra ~ Love is a Compass by Guest Blogger Kelly Diehls &#171; Auntie Moon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Moon in Libra ~ Love is a Compass by Guest Blogger Kelly Diehls &#171; Auntie Moon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 20:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] good for me and mine. It gets at The Answer. It gets me to the people and things to whom I ought to give my attention, money and love. Love is a ruthless [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Love is a Compass. &#124; Cleavage</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-6166</link>
		<dc:creator>Love is a Compass. &#124; Cleavage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 07:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] good for me and mine. It gets at The Answer. It gets me to the people and things to whom I ought to give my attention, money and love. Love is a ruthless [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Marvelous Monday! : Wicked Whimsy</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-5803</link>
		<dc:creator>Marvelous Monday! : Wicked Whimsy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 13:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Who&#8217;s showing up in your life? (I am all kinds of questiony today!) [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Laura Cococcia &#124; The Journal of Cultural Conversation</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-5614</link>
		<dc:creator>Laura Cococcia &#124; The Journal of Cultural Conversation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Showing up is the best way to put actively participating in your life. I&#039;m just learning how to show up for myself so I can be a little more mindful of showing up for others - thank you my friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Showing up is the best way to put actively participating in your life. I&#8217;m just learning how to show up for myself so I can be a little more mindful of showing up for others &#8211; thank you my friend.</p>
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		<title>By: stephanie hight</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-5572</link>
		<dc:creator>stephanie hight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 12:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m pretty damn sure we are living parallel lives. Weird and cool and I&#039;m so glad to read you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m pretty damn sure we are living parallel lives. Weird and cool and I&#8217;m so glad to read you!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael @ The Voluptua Project</title>
		<link>http://www.kellydiels.com/2010/01/18/showing-up-in-all-things-love/comment-page-1/#comment-5555</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael @ The Voluptua Project</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 11:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You, I read this and thought &quot;Damn, I need to go see my mom ... and attend some of my friends&#039; events ... and just be altogether more present.&quot; There are SO many things going on in life that we humans have an odd habit of allowing them to take precedent over what really matter. 

Thanks, Kelly, for kicking me in the ass and reminding me of this. I&#039;m on a mission to be more loving and available to the people that matter in my life (and demand that folks are there for me as well!).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You, I read this and thought &#8220;Damn, I need to go see my mom &#8230; and attend some of my friends&#8217; events &#8230; and just be altogether more present.&#8221; There are SO many things going on in life that we humans have an odd habit of allowing them to take precedent over what really matter. </p>
<p>Thanks, Kelly, for kicking me in the ass and reminding me of this. I&#8217;m on a mission to be more loving and available to the people that matter in my life (and demand that folks are there for me as well!).</p>
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		<title>By: Ronna Detrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronna Detrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:42:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As always, Kelly, an amazing post...and great comments that clearly have people thinking/being/showing up!

Here&#039;s my take: if I believe (and I do) that love shows up then I don&#039;t have to make it happen. I can trust that when I am showing up, what I want/deserve will, as well. I&#039;m done working so hard, trying so hard, manipulating, cajoling, seducing (though the last one still has its benefits in the right context). Love shows up. Love is showing up. Love will show up. 

And I will show up - 100% me - and then watch with amazement what happens. Not a perfect formula. There&#039;s still that whole &quot;human element&quot; thing, but a better stance than my oh-so-familiar pattern of &quot;This Is NOT Working, But I’ll Try Really Really Hard To Fix It Even Though I Can’t Fix It and It Is Not My Job To Fix It But Damn I Wish I Could Fix It, and You.&quot; I&#039;m with you. I&#039;m showing up for you...just as you continue to show up for me.

Love that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As always, Kelly, an amazing post&#8230;and great comments that clearly have people thinking/being/showing up!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s my take: if I believe (and I do) that love shows up then I don&#8217;t have to make it happen. I can trust that when I am showing up, what I want/deserve will, as well. I&#8217;m done working so hard, trying so hard, manipulating, cajoling, seducing (though the last one still has its benefits in the right context). Love shows up. Love is showing up. Love will show up. </p>
<p>And I will show up &#8211; 100% me &#8211; and then watch with amazement what happens. Not a perfect formula. There&#8217;s still that whole &#8220;human element&#8221; thing, but a better stance than my oh-so-familiar pattern of &#8220;This Is NOT Working, But I’ll Try Really Really Hard To Fix It Even Though I Can’t Fix It and It Is Not My Job To Fix It But Damn I Wish I Could Fix It, and You.&#8221; I&#8217;m with you. I&#8217;m showing up for you&#8230;just as you continue to show up for me.</p>
<p>Love that!</p>
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		<title>By: Sally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you for carrying on when who you thought sould or could or needed to be there was not and better for you for keeping your eyes and heart wide open to receive those who did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you for carrying on when who you thought sould or could or needed to be there was not and better for you for keeping your eyes and heart wide open to receive those who did.</p>
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