Comments on: Why I Write About Sex (and why aren’t YOU?). A meditation, really. http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/ Cleavage is about the three things everyone wants more of: sex, money and meaning. Kelly Diels is writing through the lines that shape us. Sat, 31 Jul 2010 21:44:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: The ProBlogger 7 Link Challenge – version.ak (or – 7 thought-provoking posts from my blog) « 40 Days to Change http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-32233 The ProBlogger 7 Link Challenge – version.ak (or – 7 thought-provoking posts from my blog) « 40 Days to Change Fri, 16 Jul 2010 19:42:45 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-32233 [...] themes and styles to make important points. That’s writing wizardry.  One of her best is Why I Write About Sex (and why aren’t YOU?). A meditation, really.  That woman is a [...] [...] themes and styles to make important points. That’s writing wizardry.  One of her best is Why I Write About Sex (and why aren’t YOU?). A meditation, really.  That woman is a [...]

]]> By: our touch-phobic, sex-obsessed culture. We’re sublimating, kids. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-31928 our touch-phobic, sex-obsessed culture. We’re sublimating, kids. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. Mon, 21 Jun 2010 07:05:21 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-31928 [...] I’m obsessed with sex. I’m also obsessed with food, status, security and avoiding pain and I’m willing to bet [...] [...] I’m obsessed with sex. I’m also obsessed with food, status, security and avoiding pain and I’m willing to bet [...]

]]> By: ginny http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-31542 ginny Fri, 28 May 2010 05:25:31 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-31542 This post made me both very happy and very sad - happy that you are writing this and that it's possible to LOVE sex and all the ways it can be wonderful, and sad that for me, I don't feel that way and even have trouble believing it exsists sometimes. Love your writing Kelly! This post made me both very happy and very sad – happy that you are writing this and that it’s possible to LOVE sex and all the ways it can be wonderful, and sad that for me, I don’t feel that way and even have trouble believing it exsists sometimes.

Love your writing Kelly!

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]]> By: Talk is Not Intimacy. The Tyranny of Words. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-23853 Talk is Not Intimacy. The Tyranny of Words. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. Mon, 29 Mar 2010 07:04:42 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-23853 [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...] [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...]

]]> By: my sexy friend made me celibate. maybe. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-22813 my sexy friend made me celibate. maybe. | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. Wed, 24 Mar 2010 07:04:56 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-22813 [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...] [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...]

]]> By: sexifesto | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-18639 sexifesto | Cleavage by Kelly Diels. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 08:04:37 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-18639 [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...] [...] Why I Write About Sex (and why aren't YOU?). A meditation, really. [...]

]]> By: Jeremy http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-11733 Jeremy Sun, 21 Feb 2010 13:15:15 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-11733 "Which is why virginity cannot be lost. There is no loss. There is only gain. Unfolding, knowing, more." Wow... What a profoundly moving statement. As an unusually forward-thinking Christian, I am often disturbed by mainstream Christianity's puritanical and self-loathing attitudes about sex. At best, I feel they are dangerously misleading. Your blog is such a breath of fresh air. Whether I agree with everything you say isn't even relevant. What IS relevant is that YOU ARE SAYING IT... Anyway, my point is that your statement is liberating and eye-opening on so many levels. It makes me really cherish the sexual aspect of my relationship with my second wife. We understand each other. I have had a number of sexual partners, but she is the only one that I can honestly say I am fearless with. This is reciprocated by her as well. You statement says we never lost anything, we gain... every single time... and that is so true. Thank you for your honesty. “Which is why virginity cannot be lost. There is no loss. There is only gain. Unfolding, knowing, more.” Wow… What a profoundly moving statement.

As an unusually forward-thinking Christian, I am often disturbed by mainstream Christianity’s puritanical and self-loathing attitudes about sex. At best, I feel they are dangerously misleading. Your blog is such a breath of fresh air.

Whether I agree with everything you say isn’t even relevant. What IS relevant is that YOU ARE SAYING IT…

Anyway, my point is that your statement is liberating and eye-opening on so many levels. It makes me really cherish the sexual aspect of my relationship with my second wife. We understand each other. I have had a number of sexual partners, but she is the only one that I can honestly say I am fearless with. This is reciprocated by her as well. You statement says we never lost anything, we gain… every single time… and that is so true. Thank you for your honesty.

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]]> By: Alexander http://www.kellydiels.com/2009/12/28/why-i-write-about-sex-and-why-arent-you-a-meditation-really/comment-page-1/#comment-5261 Alexander Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:08:32 +0000 http://www.kellydiels.com/?p=1342#comment-5261 Very nice reading, I love the passionate writing style and the underlying ideology ! Very nice reading, I love the passionate writing style and the underlying ideology !

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