If you’re looking for me today – and I hope you are, because you’re here, and yay! for that – I’m over at Raising My Boychick, writing about:
- wishing my kids were turtles;
- hair (AGAIN, because dammit, it is IMPORTANT and POLITICAL);
- implicitly, white privilege;
- and the healing, war-ing power of words. Yeah, baby.
So please go there now, and read it. Please. I’ll be your best friend forever.
And while you’re there, take a look at Arwyn’s razor-sharp, bleedingly joyous blog about her feminist thoughts on parenting a presumably straight white male. She’s smart and acutely insightful and so is her work. I have to google words when I read it and I’m not the only one. She very helpfully provides a glossary. Arwyn’s the bomb.












Hi, already commented over at Raising My Boychick. I’ve got an online friend who has a marvelous natural hair care routine for black hair, http://www.nappydelphia.com/ I mentioned your post to her and she’s said to please feel free to contact her with any questions about your dd’s hair.
Anyway, I saw that your dd is both wanting European-esque hair and wanting to play with her hair like you do, and Kiya’s hair is totally gorgeous and healthy and non-European and she’s also got a lot of wonderful hairstyles. I thought maybe it’d help you help your daughter feel better about her hair.
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