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		<dc:creator>Alexandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 08:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 06:47:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: How To Receive an Apology. How To Accept an Apology. How To Forgive. #sorryseries &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 06:12:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: On Harm, Healing, Ceilings and How Absent Apologies are the Pits #sorryseries &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 05:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 18:29:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow!  Great post!  I am sometimes one of those serial apologizers, but I try not to be anymore.  More often, I am trying phrases such as &quot;I sympathize&quot;, &quot;I empathize&quot;, or &quot;I totally dig where you&#039;re coming from.  Totally feelin&#039; ya!&quot;  Anymore, I only apologize when I know damn good and well I was wrong (and a horse&#039;s ass) or if I cause a minor inconvenience for someone or have done something rude, like bump into &#039;em when I was being unaware.  I must concur that I am in agreement with the total dissing of aforementioned sister&#039;s dickhead ex husband.  Man, if I had a buck for every guy that did something similar to me (and there have been several who have) I&#039;d have paid off grad school ages ago!  You totally rock, man!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow!  Great post!  I am sometimes one of those serial apologizers, but I try not to be anymore.  More often, I am trying phrases such as &#8220;I sympathize&#8221;, &#8220;I empathize&#8221;, or &#8220;I totally dig where you&#8217;re coming from.  Totally feelin&#8217; ya!&#8221;  Anymore, I only apologize when I know damn good and well I was wrong (and a horse&#8217;s ass) or if I cause a minor inconvenience for someone or have done something rude, like bump into &#8216;em when I was being unaware.  I must concur that I am in agreement with the total dissing of aforementioned sister&#8217;s dickhead ex husband.  Man, if I had a buck for every guy that did something similar to me (and there have been several who have) I&#8217;d have paid off grad school ages ago!  You totally rock, man!</p>
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		<title>By: Casey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Casey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 05:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What a jerk.  Way to not accept an apology that is meaningless, cruel, and dismissive.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post.</p>
<p>What a jerk.  Way to not accept an apology that is meaningless, cruel, and dismissive.</p>
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		<title>By: Victoria Vargas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victoria Vargas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have two more lame apology categories to add:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. the &quot;it&#039;s not my fault, but I&#039;ll apologize to shut you up&quot; apology; and &lt;br /&gt;2. the &quot;I&#039;m apologizing for someone else&#039;s actions because I can&#039;t stand being uncomfortable, so just let it go and let&#039;s all be comfy again&quot; apology (this one may fall into the &quot;apology you don&#039;t have the right to give&quot; category, but seems different enough to rate its own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second one is particularly incidious when a 3rd party intervenes and expects you to accept their apology for someone who has been a complete jerk to you and has no intention of apologizing, just to keep the peace. I never accept those, but am always willing to give someone a second chance if the offense wasn&#039;t physical or intentionally demeaning and they sincerely apologize. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great post, Josh. Rockin&#039; as usual!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have two more lame apology categories to add:</p>
<p>1. the &#8220;it&#8217;s not my fault, but I&#8217;ll apologize to shut you up&#8221; apology; and <br />2. the &#8220;I&#8217;m apologizing for someone else&#8217;s actions because I can&#8217;t stand being uncomfortable, so just let it go and let&#8217;s all be comfy again&#8221; apology (this one may fall into the &#8220;apology you don&#8217;t have the right to give&#8221; category, but seems different enough to rate its own.</p>
<p>The second one is particularly incidious when a 3rd party intervenes and expects you to accept their apology for someone who has been a complete jerk to you and has no intention of apologizing, just to keep the peace. I never accept those, but am always willing to give someone a second chance if the offense wasn&#8217;t physical or intentionally demeaning and they sincerely apologize. </p>
<p>Great post, Josh. Rockin&#8217; as usual!</p>
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		<title>By: Johan</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 21:01:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In between jobs I was working as temp in a museum in Belgium (Western Europe) and a group of people who got a bit lost (very big museum), came too me and started with, &#039;We are Americans, sorry&#039;. It&#039;s very popular to criticize the USA in Europe, but while I do not always agree with American politics (neither with European or Belgian politics for that matter) I make a distinction between a country/government and its people/individuals. I didn&#039;t know what to say at first ... Americans apologizing for being Americans. So strange and they were such a nice people.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In between jobs I was working as temp in a museum in Belgium (Western Europe) and a group of people who got a bit lost (very big museum), came too me and started with, &#8216;We are Americans, sorry&#8217;. It&#8217;s very popular to criticize the USA in Europe, but while I do not always agree with American politics (neither with European or Belgian politics for that matter) I make a distinction between a country/government and its people/individuals. I didn&#8217;t know what to say at first &#8230; Americans apologizing for being Americans. So strange and they were such a nice people.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 16:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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