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	<title>Comments on: How To Help Your Child Succeed in Life, and Extra-Curricular Activities are NOT It</title>
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		<title>By: Lisis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 17:23:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Kelly! I totally agree about the over-scheduling thing. 

Don&#039;t write off homeschooling just yet. I thought I would NEVER do it for all the standard reasons people who don&#039;t homeschool always list. I ended up having to do it because of my son&#039;s surgeries and, guess what? It&#039;s the greatest thing ever!

SUPER easy, super fun, super laid back, allows us to travel and do wild and crazy things, we both love it... I can&#039;t say enough good things about it. I&#039;m not religious, paranoid or a hippie, I just like keeping life simple and real... and seeing my son&#039;s eyes light up when he gets his next library book! Oh, and the socialization thing is easy: cousins, playdates, life.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Kelly! I totally agree about the over-scheduling thing. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t write off homeschooling just yet. I thought I would NEVER do it for all the standard reasons people who don&#8217;t homeschool always list. I ended up having to do it because of my son&#8217;s surgeries and, guess what? It&#8217;s the greatest thing ever!</p>
<p>SUPER easy, super fun, super laid back, allows us to travel and do wild and crazy things, we both love it&#8230; I can&#8217;t say enough good things about it. I&#8217;m not religious, paranoid or a hippie, I just like keeping life simple and real&#8230; and seeing my son&#8217;s eyes light up when he gets his next library book! Oh, and the socialization thing is easy: cousins, playdates, life.</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.kellydiels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 07:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.&lt;/strong&gt;

My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#039;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#039; world).  I&#039;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#039;parenting&#039;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#039; skool.  ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.</strong></p>
<p>My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#8217;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#8217; world).  I&#8217;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#8216;parenting&#8217;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#8217; skool.  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.&lt;/strong&gt;

My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#039;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#039; world).  I&#039;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#039;parenting&#039;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#039; skool.  ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.</strong></p>
<p>My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#8217;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#8217; world).  I&#8217;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#8216;parenting&#8217;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#8217; skool.  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.&lt;/strong&gt;

My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#039;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#039; world).  I&#039;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#039;parenting&#039;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#039; skool.  ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.</strong></p>
<p>My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#8217;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#8217; world).  I&#8217;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#8216;parenting&#8217;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#8217; skool.  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.&lt;/strong&gt;

My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#039;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#039; world).  I&#039;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#039;parenting&#039;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#039; skool.  ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.</strong></p>
<p>My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#8217;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#8217; world).  I&#8217;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#8216;parenting&#8217;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#8217; skool.  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels . com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 07:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.&lt;/strong&gt;

My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#039;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#039; world).  I&#039;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#039;parenting&#039;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#039; skool.  ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mamafesto.  Unfinished. In progress. Just Like the Kids, and Me.</strong></p>
<p>My ten point plan (so far) for being a happy, radiant, not-drunk (all the time) mama while raising creative, competent, semi-domesticated critters.  I mean children.  You knew that.1. Be a retro-mama. I&#8217;m not talking about ruffled aprons and Duncan Hines mixes (though that combo would rock my girls&#8217; world).  I&#8217;m not talking about June Clever or Betty Draper or pre-Betty Friedan repressed and resentful housewifery.  Instead,  I humbly, stridently, bordering-on-shrill-ly suggest that in terms of &#8216;parenting&#8217;  we stop doing so damn much of it (yes, you heard me) and kick it ol&#8217; skool.  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Eva.  Thanks for the idea - yes, let&#039;s make THEM responsible for THEIR gear.  Great tip.  Thanks for your thoughtful, encouraging feedback.  I&#039;ll watch your blog for more ideas.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Eva.  Thanks for the idea &#8211; yes, let&#8217;s make THEM responsible for THEIR gear.  Great tip.  Thanks for your thoughtful, encouraging feedback.  I&#8217;ll watch your blog for more ideas.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Diels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly Diels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jerry, you just said in three lines what it took me 1,466 words to articulate.  Yes, exactly!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jerry, you just said in three lines what it took me 1,466 words to articulate.  Yes, exactly!</p>
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		<title>By: Jerry Black</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jerry Black</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kelly,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love what you write, this post especially.  By providing kids with the thirst for knowledge, the ability to learn and adapt, and the ability to relate to people, we will empower them to identify their passions and be able to attain what it is that makes them happy and fulfilled.&lt;br /&gt;Seems so simple....
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kelly,</p>
<p>I love what you write, this post especially.  By providing kids with the thirst for knowledge, the ability to learn and adapt, and the ability to relate to people, we will empower them to identify their passions and be able to attain what it is that makes them happy and fulfilled.<br />Seems so simple&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Eva Robertson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eva Robertson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 23:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t know that my last comment made it on your blog -- the code was a little tough to decipher.  Running now, but loved this post!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t know that my last comment made it on your blog &#8212; the code was a little tough to decipher.  Running now, but loved this post!</p>
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