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	<title>Comments on: Welcome The Child: A Mother&#8217;s Day Tribute to Adela Etibako</title>
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		<title>By: baby, my love, the truth &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
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		<dc:creator>baby, my love, the truth &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 01:21:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] drives me crazy, Baby. I’m not going to lie. Your dad and I found each other so we could find you.    April 3, 2010 &#124; filed under: Family &#124; tweet it, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] drives me crazy, Baby. I’m not going to lie. Your dad and I found each other so we could find you.    April 3, 2010 | filed under: Family | tweet it, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: on safe harbours, swimming demons, and facing your own stuff &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
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		<dc:creator>on safe harbours, swimming demons, and facing your own stuff &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 21:18:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wasn’t paranoia. It wasn&#8217;t even wrong &#8211; even here, a whole family could find harm at the fiery hands of a son&#8217;s friend. But most often it was post-traumatic stress. It was a soul-scarred sensitivity to signs. It was [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] wasn’t paranoia. It wasn&#8217;t even wrong &#8211; even here, a whole family could find harm at the fiery hands of a son&#8217;s friend. But most often it was post-traumatic stress. It was a soul-scarred sensitivity to signs. It was [...]</p>
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		<title>By: this is for you &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</title>
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		<dc:creator>this is for you &#124; Cleavage by Kelly Diels.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2010 07:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] who I hoped heard how pretty my baby was so you could regret she wasn&#8217;t [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] who I hoped heard how pretty my baby was so you could regret she wasn&#8217;t [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Victoria Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victoria Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 15:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Mother&#039;s Day to all.&quot;-~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy Mother&#8217;s Day to all.&#8221;-~</p>
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		<title>By: kareem</title>
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		<dc:creator>kareem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 20:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... just... wow. Thanks for sharing a both heartwarming and sad story. I feel lucky having known Mama Adela through you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; just&#8230; wow. Thanks for sharing a both heartwarming and sad story. I feel lucky having known Mama Adela through you.</p>
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		<title>By: andi</title>
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		<dc:creator>andi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 15:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a tragic story! But so beautifully written. I second PicsieChick. You knew them. Letting people affect your life so deeply, intentionally or not, leaves you so vulnerable to connections like these. Amazing, beautiful and sometimes tragic. Thanks for sharing this out of the archives!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a tragic story! But so beautifully written. I second PicsieChick. You knew them. Letting people affect your life so deeply, intentionally or not, leaves you so vulnerable to connections like these. Amazing, beautiful and sometimes tragic. Thanks for sharing this out of the archives!</p>
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		<title>By: tara - scoutie girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>tara - scoutie girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 13:59:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>kelly - you&#039;ve  s t r e t c h e d  me so much reading your work. thank you so much for sharing this story, your joy, your heartache, and your strong opinions.

i&#039;m so happy that our daughter&#039;s share the same name - lola.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>kelly &#8211; you&#8217;ve  s t r e t c h e d  me so much reading your work. thank you so much for sharing this story, your joy, your heartache, and your strong opinions.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m so happy that our daughter&#8217;s share the same name &#8211; lola.</p>
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		<title>By: Eleanor Edwards</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eleanor Edwards</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 09:31:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m speechless</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m speechless</p>
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		<title>By: PicsieChick</title>
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		<dc:creator>PicsieChick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 07:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.  You *knew* them.  Such a tragic story, made so much more real to me, now.

And, yes, like Dave said.  To hear your voice from your archives is to know you (a little bit) as you were.  You, at an earlier state of your evolution.  Beautiful, thoughtful, thought-provoking, and not completely formed.

I am humbled and outrageously happy to call you friend.

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  You *knew* them.  Such a tragic story, made so much more real to me, now.</p>
<p>And, yes, like Dave said.  To hear your voice from your archives is to know you (a little bit) as you were.  You, at an earlier state of your evolution.  Beautiful, thoughtful, thought-provoking, and not completely formed.</p>
<p>I am humbled and outrageously happy to call you friend.</p>
<p>Hugs and butterflies,<br />
~T~</p>
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		<title>By: Lianne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 07:25:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>tears</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>tears</p>
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